Don’t Get Angry, Wife—She Was the Most Important Person in My Life
Conceicao: Whoever Has a Mother is Rich!
Sergio Conceicao, AC Milan’s head coach, shared heartfelt words about his personal life on the occasion of Mother’s Day.
AC Milan’s initiative to wear jerseys bearing the surnames of players’ mothers was a commendable gesture, repeated for the second consecutive year. On the night of this meaningful tribute, they secured a sweet 3-1 victory over Bologna.
This touching act prompted Sergio Conceicao, the Portuguese coach of the Rossoneri, to open up in an interview with Milan TV. Speaking ahead of Mother’s Day, he reflected on his childhood.
Conceicao began his remarks: “I am one of eight children my mother had, and we all adored her. There are no words to describe the love my siblings and I had for her.
We grew up facing many hardships. My father was the sole breadwinner, while my mother took care of us. She worked tirelessly with endless love and care. She was my guiding light. People ask me about the happiest moments of my life, but I believe true happiness is fleeting.
There are times when some people are happier than others, but even then, a shadow of sorrow lingers within me. I am never fully happy because I miss her deeply—even today.
When I was four, I lost my 12-year-old brother. Then, my father passed away when I was 15. Later, my mother suffered a stroke that left her paralyzed on the left side, losing her independence. As the youngest son, I had to take care of her while my older brothers were away.
I had to assist her in everything. Those years were filled with a higher form of love—a bond I cannot put into words. Financially, we had nothing, but love bound us together. I always remember one saying: ‘Whoever has a mother is rich and doesn’t even know it.’ And it’s true.
My mother never scolded me. My father was strict and tough, but my mother was a role model who protected her children, always offering kind words. She was the most important person in my life—though I don’t want to forget my wife, or she’ll get angry. It’s hard to express what I feel every day. I’ve learned to live with this pain and move forward.”
Conceicao concluded: “When I win, my first words are always for them—for what they gave me, for the lessons they taught me even without speaking. They instilled in me the core values that define my character.
I want to succeed for them. My wish for all mothers and women in the world is that thanks to them, the world moves forward. I hope those fortunate enough to still have their mothers cherish the opportunity and say, ‘I love you.'”